● By Hannah Dania
It’s never a lonely road in times of stress when you have a solid support system.
Whether it's work pressures, financial concerns, health issues, or personal relationships, stress is inevitable. Now, some stress is good (you can read all about it here), but when it overwhelms you, stress will negatively impact both your physical and mental health.
In times of extreme stress, one of the most effective ways to manage it is through supportive relationships. The presence of empathetic and understanding people in our lives can significantly enhance our ability to cope with challenging situations, and here’s why:
“Tell me what’s wrong”
Having someone to talk to can provide immense relief during stressful situations. Sharing our concerns with a trusted friend or family member can lighten our emotional burden. These conversations don't necessarily need to solve your problem but can validate your emotions and make you feel heard and understood, thereby reducing feelings of isolation and loneliness too, which often intensify during stressful times.
“If you need help, anything at all…”
While they may not provide the solution to your problem, your support system can help in other tangible ways, like running errands, offering financial assistance, or helping with childcare. This kind of support can ease some of the burdens that add on to your stressful situation, allowing you to completely focus on resolving the core issues causing your stress until you get back on your feet.
“Perhaps you need to look at it this way”
When we are stressed, it can often be challenging to see the bigger picture. After all, stress narrows our focus to the immediate problem, making everything seem overwhelming. Your support system can offer a different viewpoint, helping you see angles and solutions you might not have considered. At the very least, they remind us that we are OK.
“I got you”
Knowing that others care about our well-being and are willing to stand by us during difficult times strengthens our resilience. This sense of belonging and connectedness can be a powerful antidote to the helplessness and despair that often comes with stress.
Don’t want to burden your friends with your problems? As much as you would rather be alone in dealing with your situation, your support system can make a significant difference in your ability to navigate life’s challenges. So when the going gets tough, lean on your loved ones!
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