● By Aminah Madihah
Life is a series of events… with choices that lead to them.
Say you’re going for a holiday trip with a group of friends. Karen thinks planning the itinerary in detail would help make the trip run more smoothly, but Jennie thinks you should wing it and see where the trip takes you. Who should you support?
Both approaches have their pros and cons that could potentially impact the experience and overall satisfaction. Let’s talk about it!
1. Sets clear goals
Planning allows you to figure out what you want and map out the steps needed to achieve them. If you’re visiting a different country, of course you’d want to check out the places that are popular among tourists. List them down and organise how you would navigate them.
2. Saves you from possible stress
Knowing what lies ahead can reduce anxiety and stress. A well-structured plan can provide a sense of control and security, helping you better manage any uncertainties.
3. Cuts down on resources
Planning helps you allocate your resources, such as time and money, more efficiently. When you have a clear set of goals, you can prioritise and make informed decisions about where to invest your efforts.
Overplanning can lead to rigidity, making it challenging to adapt to unexpected opportunities or changes in circumstances. What if you wanted to go to the beach and suddenly it started raining?
2. Missed spontaneous moments
Excessive planning can cause you to miss out on spontaneous, joyous experiences that often arise when you least expect them. Sometimes, the best things that happen are those that are unplanned.
Overcommitting to a meticulously planned schedule can lead to burnout and a lack of balance. If you plan ahead too much, it can take the fun out of something such as going for a holiday.
1. Adventure and excitement
Spontaneity opens the door to adventure and excitement. It allows you to seize unexpected opportunities and make the most of the moment.
2. Get creative
Being spontaneous can spark creativity and innovation, as you respond to challenges and opportunities with fresh, unscripted solutions. Not sure where to eat? Walk around and try a new restaurant! You might find yourself a gem.
3. Bonding opportunities
Spontaneous acts can strengthen relationships by adding an element of surprise and delight to interactions with friends and loved ones. Discovering places and trying out new activities can make you grow closer with the people you share the experience with.
1. Risk and uncertainty
Spontaneity can lead to risky decisions and uncertainty about the future, which may not always yield positive outcomes. Missed a connecting flight because you were being spontaneous with your travel plan? Not exactly a desirable outcome during a holiday!
2. Lack of direction
Overindulgence in spontaneity may result in a lack of direction. This could lead to waste of time, energy and money.
Can someone say inefficient? Because you may find yourself constantly shifting priorities without a clear plan.
The conclusion? You need both friends to make the perfect trip happen! Striking a balance between the two is often the key to a fulfilling life. Planning can help you achieve your objectives, while spontaneity can infuse your life with excitement and joy.
Which one are you? Tell us @Graduan!
Photo by Marten Bjork on Unsplash.
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