● By Aminah Madihah
Here’s a reminder that it is absolutely impossible to be liked by everyone.
We often find ourselves trying to please everyone, bending and twisting to match the expectations of others. Of course, being liked feels good. But how far are you willing to go to meet everyone’s standards? Every individual is different; some prefer loud and chatty company, while others enjoy peace and quiet. If you eat too little, people tell you to eat more. If you eat a lot, they warn you to take it easy so you don’t gain weight. So, is there really a point in changing who you are?
Here’s the truth: You’re not everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s perfectly fine. There’s no one-person-fit for all. If one person doesn’t like you, it doesn’t mean no one else will accept you as you are. Embracing your uniqueness is important, and you shouldn’t let anyone take away your special traits.
Embracing your true self is one of the most liberating things you can do! When you stop trying to fit into everyone else's expectations, you begin to understand what makes you unique. Authenticity is not just about being different; it’s about being true to who you are, embracing your quirks, strengths, and even your flaws.
Self-Love: The Most Important Form of Love
Changing yourself to fit someone else's idea of who you should be is a recipe for unhappiness. It can lead to a loss of self-identity and inner conflict. Just as you can’t be everything to everyone, not everyone can be everything to you. Relationships and connections built on authenticity are far more meaningful and lasting than those built on a facade.
So what do you do with this newfound knowledge about authenticity? Find your tribe! These are the people who appreciate you for who you are, who support and uplift you. Surrounding yourself with such people creates a positive environment where you can thrive.
Learning to love and accept yourself is a crucial part of this journey. When you love yourself, you set the standard for how others should treat you. You learn to say no to things and people that don't serve your well-being, and yes to those that do.
So the next time you feel out of place, it might just be because you’re in the wrong crowd with the wrong people. And that’s ok, because you do you!
Photo by Ava Sol on Unsplash.
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